Secrets of a Blue Eyed Vixen

Wednesday, November 29, 2006

"Living is about making decisions and then spending the rest of your life living up to them"

The love of my life reminded me of this quote from one of our favorite movies (Meet Joe Black) and it has stuck in my head.

So.

~*~*~*~*~*drum roll please~*~*~*~*~*

During our meeting yesterday, AH and I came to [are you ready for this?!??!?!] AN AGREEMENT. Yes. After three hours with a mediator we came to an agreement on ALL issues. My main concern was the kids, his main concern was the money issues. It *all* was resolved. Even my attorney was just stunned.

You have NO idea how relieved I am about this. NO IDEA. No more meetings, hearings, mediations......it's settled and my divorce will now move towards being finalized. Wow.

I did find out some interesting facts regarding AH and his future plans. I'm a bit....drawn back. Not sure what will come of these life changes he may be making. But I refuse to dwell (or share, I'm sorry, it's his personal life and I will respect that until it effects me directly enough to feel comfortable discussing it) on right now. A settlement was made and all I can do at this moment is feel insanely happy that it was.

Oh. And BTW, I went in prepared to fight tooth and nail to have my children Xmas eve and Xmas morning. He did have intentions of fighting me on it too. But damn it, I said ok to Thanksgiving because I knew how important is was to him and his family. I said ok to Xmas eve day, because I knew how important it is to him and his family. I GET XMAS MORNING!!!!! And I did. So I'm a happy camper. :)

Posted by Vixen :: 12:14 PM :: 12 comments